I feel their frustration, "You're talking about hell and evil.  I know you have fears, but how can I tell you the way out if the minute I say one thing, you all take over and make up ten or more wild stories. But even the stories that you try to tell that have some truth, may have enough untruth to bring about conflict. That's why you have to stick with the Bible and precisely what it says.  Most of the Christians in our country have been given wrong information and it has become part of their belief system.  The wise men were not at the manger scene; the fruit Adam and Eve ate was not an apple; and Joseph, Mary, and Jesus were not white."